We were on the cover of Women's Wear Daily, which was hardly rock 'n' roll, but it pleased me.

My life is routine-obsessed. I'm OCD, and if I'm not at home, I always get up early and exercise. I don't crash and burn at night, not these days, so early-ish to bed. At home, I have three small boys who bring me down to earth with school runs and endless meals.

The breakup of my first marriage was my first failure; I had to learn to accept that and support the people involved. The court case brought against me by three of the band was awful, but learning how to let it go, move on, and come back together as friends and creative partners was a life lesson above any other.

I think my younger self would be more amazed to know I was doing an interview for 'The Spectator.

I think sometimes my controlling instincts came out of a fear of other people.

My instinct is to be very controlling.

We were on the cover of Women's Wear Daily, which was hardly rock 'n' roll, but it pleased me.