Nothing is more certain of destroying any good feeling that may be cherished towards us than to show distrust. To be suspected as an enemy is often enough to make a man become so; the whole matter is over, there is no farther use of guarding against it. On the contrary, confidence leads us naturally to act kindly, we are affected by the good opinion which others entertain of us, and we are not easily induced to lose it.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneWe like so much to hear people talk of us and of our motives, that we are charmed even when they abuse us.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneI am persuaded that the greater part of our complaints arise from want of exercise.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneI fear nothing so much as a man who is witty all day long.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneNot to find pleasure in serious reading gives a pastel coloring to the mind.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneWe are so fond of hearing ourselves spoken of, that, be it good or ill, it is still pleasing.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de SevigneNothing is more certain of destroying any good feeling that may be cherished towards us than to show distrust. To be suspected as an enemy is often enough to make a man become so; the whole matter is over, there is no farther use of guarding against it. On the contrary, confidence leads us naturally to act kindly, we are affected by the good opinion which others entertain of us, and we are not easily induced to lose it.
Marie de Rabutin-Chantal, marquise de Sevigne