Are You the Therapist Friend, the Chaos Friend, or the Vanisher?

Find out if your friendship energy is the glue, the glitter bomb, or the mysterious ghost that disappears at brunch

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In every friend group, roles naturally emerge. There's the one who always listens. The one who brings drama and unpredictability. And the one who... vanishes mysteriously for weeks at a time only to reappear like nothing happened. You might think you know where you fall—but your vibe might be giving something else entirely.

➡️ One Question: Are You the Friend Who Plans or Goes With the Flow?

This quiz dives into how you show up for others, how you recharge, and what your friends secretly rely on you for (or forgive you for). Whether you're the go-to for emotional unpacking, the spontaneous instigator, or the friend who’s a bit of a social cryptid, your pattern is part of your magic—and your mess.

➡️ Which Cartoon Character Is Your Best Friend?

Answer these 7 questions about how you text, exit group chats, react to drama, and handle late-night calls. By the end, you’ll know exactly which type of friend you really are—and maybe understand why you get tagged in those memes. Group dynamics? Consider them decoded.

Your friend is crying at 2 a.m. You:

Talk them through it, no judgment Show up with snacks and chaos See it, swipe, and reply... later

You’re added to a new group chat. You:

Mute it immediately Send 12 memes in 10 minutes Offer emotional check-ins by day two

When someone starts drama in the group, you:

Mediate gently, with tact Add fuel just to watch it burn Disappear until it blows over

Your reply speed is best described as:

Immediate or never—there is no in-between Prompt, thoughtful, emoji-accurate Delayed by three lunar cycles

At a party, you’re most likely:

Commanding karaoke with zero shame Checking in on someone in the kitchen Already ghosted—no one saw you leave

Your friends most often say:

“Where have you been?”“I really needed to hear that”“You’re actually unhinged”