Find Out Your Relationship Attachment Style with This Quiz

Discover whether your attachment style is secure, anxious, or avoidant based on how you connect and communicate in relationships

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Understanding how you connect with others is one of the most powerful tools for building meaningful relationships. Whether it’s romantic, platonic, or even professional, your attachment style influences how you express love, handle conflict, and respond to emotional needs. Rooted in early experiences and shaped over time, attachment styles reveal your unconscious patterns when it comes to closeness, trust, and vulnerability.

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This quiz is designed to uncover your relationship attachment style—Secure, Anxious, or Avoidant—not just based on how you feel about love, but how you act within it. Are you someone who trusts easily and communicates openly? Do you crave reassurance and fear abandonment? Or do you value independence and distance more than intimacy? Your answers will reveal the subtle ways you connect—or protect—your heart.

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Through seven thoughtful questions, you’ll reflect on how you behave in relationships, how you react to emotional closeness, and what you need from a partner. While the answers are brief, they’ve been crafted to point clearly to one of the three core attachment styles, helping you understand your default patterns in love and connection.

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Remember, no attachment style is “wrong.” Each one formed for a reason and served you in some way. The goal here isn’t to judge but to understand. Once you know your attachment style, you can work toward building healthier dynamics with others—whether by nurturing your secure tendencies or learning to balance your anxious or avoidant responses.

💚 What's Your Relationship Deal-Maker?

At the end of the quiz, you’ll receive a personalized result that explains not just which style you relate to most, but how it influences your relationship life—and what you can do to grow. Let’s dive into the psychology of connection and find out how you truly attach.

How do you feel about emotional intimacy?

Comfortable and open Crave it, fear losing it Uncomfortable, prefer space

When conflict arises, you usually:

Stay calm and talk it through Get overwhelmed and clingy Withdraw or shut down

How do you handle time apart from your partner?

It’s healthy and refreshing I worry they’ll forget me I prefer lots of space

What’s your biggest relationship fear?

Mutual respect fading Being left or replaced Losing independence

How do you usually express affection?

Consistently, with warmth Often, but fear it’s too much Rarely, unless I feel safe

How do you react to needing help?

Ask and receive easily Feel needy, fear being a burden Avoid asking, rely on myself