So also it is good not always to make a friend of the person who is expert in twining himself around us; but, after testing them, to attach ourselves to those who are worthy of our affection and likely to be serviceable to us.
PlutarchThe state of life is most happy where superfluities are not required and necessities are not wanting.
PlutarchA Roman divorced from his wife, being highly blamed by his friends, who demanded, "Was she not chaste? Was she not fair? Was she not fruitful?" holding out his shoe, asked them whether it was not new and well made. "Yet," added he, "none of you can tell where it pinches me.''
PlutarchWe ought to regard books as we do sweetmeats, not wholly to aim at the pleasantest, but chiefly to respect the wholesomest; not forbidding either, but approving the latter most.
PlutarchNot by lamentations and mournful chants ought we to celebrate the funeral of a good man, but by hymns, for in ceasing to be numbered with mortals he enters upon the heritage of a diviner life.
PlutarchAmong real friends there is no rivalry or jealousy of one another, but they are satisfied and contented alike whether they are equal or one of them is superior.
PlutarchThe real destroyer of the liberties of the people is he who spreads among them bounties, donations and benefits.
PlutarchA traveller at Sparta, standing long upon one leg, said to a Lacedaemonian, "I do not believe you can do as much." "True," said he, "but every goose can."
PlutarchIt is not the most distinguished achievements that men's virtues or vices may be best discovered; but very often an action of small note. An casual remark or joke shall distinguish a person's real character more than the greatest sieges, or the most important battles.
PlutarchIf you light upon an impertinent talker, that sticks to you like a bur, to the disappointment of your important occasions, deal freely with him, break off the discourse, and pursue your business.
PlutarchThe same intelligence is required to marshal an army in battle and to order a good dinner. The first must be as formidable as possible, the second as pleasant as possible, to the participants.
PlutarchWisdom is neither gold, nor silver, nor fame, nor wealth, nor health, nor strength, nor beauty.
PlutarchPerseverance is more prevailing than violence; and many things which cannot be overcome when they are together, yield themselves up when taken little by little.
PlutarchRather I fear on the contrary that while we banish painful thoughts we may banish memory as well.
PlutarchIt is circumstance and proper measure that give an action its character, and make it either good or bad.
PlutarchThemistocles replied that a man's discourse was like to a rich Persian carpet, the beautiful figures and patterns of which can only be shown by spreading and extending it out; when it is contracted and folded up, they are obscured and lost.
PlutarchThey fought indeed and were slain, but it was to maintain the luxury and the wealth of other men.
PlutarchTo make no mistakes is not in the power of man; but from their errors and mistakes the wise and good learn wisdom for the future.
PlutarchSince, during storms, flames leap from the humid vapors and dark clouds emit deafening noises, is it surprising the lightning, when it strikes the ground, gives rise to truffles, which do not resemble plants?
PlutarchLycurgus being asked why he, who in other respects appeared to be so zealous for the equal rights of men, did not make his government democratical rather than oligarchical, "Go you," replied the legislator, "and try a democracy in your own house.
PlutarchPoverty is not dishonorable in itself, but only when it comes from idleness, intemperance, extravagance, and folly.
PlutarchWhat All The World Knows Water is the principle, or the element, of things. All things are water.
PlutarchHad I a careful and pleasant companion that should show me my angry face in a glass, I should not at all take it ill; to behold man's self so unnaturally disguised and dishonored will conduce not a little to the impeachment of anger.
PlutarchNothing is harder to direct than a man in prosperity; nothing more easily managed that one is adversity.
PlutarchThe Epicureans, according to whom animals had no creation, doe suppose that by mutation of one into another, they were first made; for they are the substantial part of the world; like as Anaxagoras and Euripides affirme in these tearmes: nothing dieth, but in changing as they doe one for another they show sundry formes.
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