Make it a practice to kick yourself for every time you answer your children with the words NOT RIGHT NOW.
Wes FeslerWithin the mind there are no lies-no possibility of deceiving oneself; and yet, somehow we all manage to bypass the safety of truth in pursuit of dangerous desires.
Wes FeslerThe only way to have room enough in our hearts to truly love others is to purge all hatred, and replace it with love.
Wes FeslerTrust is not established in the absence of betrayal, but in those whose betrayal is least.
Wes FeslerDiscipline is the long and arduous process of convincing the mind to abide by one's conscience.
Wes FeslerIn every difficult situation there is a door to opportunity for which optimism is the only key.
Wes FeslerA father who denies a child of his attention is no better than a fully-equipped medic who watches idly as a soldier bleeds to death.
Wes FeslerI don't see the point in apologizing to someone who remains angry enough to throw me off a cliff...unless we are standing by a cliff.
Wes FeslerThere is no greater blessing than a family hand that lifts you from a fall; but there is not lower curse than a family hand that strikes you when you're down.
Wes FeslerBy life's very nature we are compelled to find and maintain balance, or be subject to the symptoms of the lack thereof.
Wes FeslerJealousy is the fire of envy that seeks to destroy another's beauty, rather than to create its own.
Wes FeslerSuccess is found balanced between optimism and realism, where it is unhindered by the weight of pessimism.
Wes FeslerCherish every season of life; for without coldness, there is no comfort in warmth, and without darker days, there is no joy in light.
Wes FeslerIf you share in a heart-felt sorrow, you can lighten the load of a friend. Sometimes facing the burden together can mend two broken hearts in the end.
Wes FeslerThe value of hatred and ignorance is found in the fact that without them we could never truly appreciate wisdom and love.
Wes FeslerChildren are best corrected to the point of their understanding, not to the extent of a parent's frustration.
Wes FeslerA cheerful demeanor makes brighter the day; as the sun, chasing darkness and sorrow away.
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