What's Your Romantic Decision-Making Style?
Find out whether you lead with your heart, your head, or your instincts when making choices in love
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Love can be magical, messy, or somewhere in between — and the way you make romantic decisions says a lot about how you navigate it all. Some people follow their hearts no matter the risk. Others weigh every outcome. And some just go with the vibe and hope for the best.
This quiz explores your unique approach to romance — how you handle dating dilemmas, emotional crossroads, and those big “should I text them back?” moments. Are you a heart-first romantic, a headstrong realist, or an instinctive in-the-moment lover?
Answer 7 thoughtful questions to uncover your romantic decision-making style — and get a little clarity on how you really move in love.
What’s the first thing you notice when you're attracted to someone?
How they make me feelIf we’re compatible long-termThe spark — it’s a vibeHow do you decide to go on a second date?
If there was emotional connectionIf they checked key boxesIf I had fun and felt a pullWhen a relationship challenge comes up, you:
Talk it out and express feelingsStep back and evaluate optionsAct on what feels right in the momentWhat matters most in a relationship?
Emotional depth and connectionShared goals and valuesExcitement and chemistryHow do you handle a crush?
Feel deeply and romanticizeAnalyze if it’s realisticFlirt and go with the flowYou just got out of a relationship. What now?
Reflect and heal emotionallyThink about what I’ve learnedDistract myself with something funWhen it comes to love, you trust:
My heartMy logicMy gut More Like This