What's Your Romantic Decision-Making Style?

Find out whether you lead with your heart, your head, or your instincts when making choices in love

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Love can be magical, messy, or somewhere in between — and the way you make romantic decisions says a lot about how you navigate it all. Some people follow their hearts no matter the risk. Others weigh every outcome. And some just go with the vibe and hope for the best.

This quiz explores your unique approach to romance — how you handle dating dilemmas, emotional crossroads, and those big “should I text them back?” moments. Are you a heart-first romantic, a headstrong realist, or an instinctive in-the-moment lover?

Answer 7 thoughtful questions to uncover your romantic decision-making style — and get a little clarity on how you really move in love.

What’s the first thing you notice when you're attracted to someone?

How they make me feel If we’re compatible long-term The spark — it’s a vibe

How do you decide to go on a second date?

If there was emotional connection If they checked key boxes If I had fun and felt a pull

When a relationship challenge comes up, you:

Talk it out and express feelings Step back and evaluate options Act on what feels right in the moment

What matters most in a relationship?

Emotional depth and connection Shared goals and values Excitement and chemistry

How do you handle a crush?

Feel deeply and romanticize Analyze if it’s realistic Flirt and go with the flow

You just got out of a relationship. What now?