Are You Surrounded by Good People or Are They Using You? ๐ค๐ง
Gain some clarity about the nature of your connections
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Examine the dynamics of your relationships and gain insights into whether the people around you are genuinely supportive or if they might have ulterior motives.
Answer the following eight questions to gain clarity about the nature of your connections. ๐ค๐ง
๐ค How often do your friends or acquaintances reach out to you?
They consistently initiate contact and value your presence.Communication is balanced, and you share equal effort.You often initiate contact, and they may not be as responsive.They rarely initiate contact, and you're always reaching out.๐ง How do your friends react when you're facing challenges?
They offer genuine support, advice, and a listening ear.They show sympathy, but they might not offer practical help.They're not very involved or supportive during tough times.They might even become distant when you're struggling.๐ค How do your friends celebrate your successes?
They genuinely celebrate your achievements and cheer you on.They acknowledge your successes but might not be overly enthusiastic.They seem indifferent to your accomplishments.They may even downplay your achievements.๐ง How much do your friends know about your personal life?
They know almost everything about you and genuinely care.They know some details but are not deeply involved.You're selective about what you share, and they know little.They know very little about your personal life.๐ค How do you feel when you're around your friends?
You feel valued, respected, and accepted for who you are.You feel mostly comfortable, but there might be moments of unease.You often feel judged or like you're not being your true self.You might feel drained or negative after spending time with them.๐ง How often do your friends make time for you?
They prioritize spending quality time and value your company.You hang out occasionally, but it's not consistent.They're often unavailable, and it's hard to make plans.They seem disinterested in making time for you.๐ค How do your friends react when you share your goals and dreams?
They're genuinely supportive and encourage you to pursue them.They're supportive but might offer a dose of realism.They're indifferent or might even discourage your aspirations.They don't seem interested in your goals.๐ง How much do you trust your friends with confidential information?
You trust them implicitly and share your deepest thoughts.You trust them to some extent but keep certain things private.You're hesitant to share sensitive information with them.You don't trust them fully and keep most things to yourself. More Like This