I think the virtue I prize above all others is curiosity. If you look really hard at almost anybody, and try to see why they're doing what they're doing, taking a dig at them ceases to be what you want to do even if you hate them.
A. S. ByattThink of this - that the writer wrote alone, and the reader read alone, and they were alone with each other.
A. S. ByattYou are safe with me." "I am not at all safe, with you. But I have no desire to be elsewhere.
A. S. Byatt