Once you get older, people stop listening to what you say. It's very agreeable once you get used to it.
A. S. ByattI think the virtue I prize above all others is curiosity. If you look really hard at almost anybody, and try to see why they're doing what they're doing, taking a dig at them ceases to be what you want to do even if you hate them.
A. S. ByattYou are safe with me." "I am not at all safe, with you. But I have no desire to be elsewhere.
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