If you want to control other people, first control yourself.
Every day, nay every moment, try to do some good deed.
He who prays five times a day is in the protection of God, and he who is protected by God cannot be harmed by anyone.
Cursed is the man who dies, but the evil done by him survives.
The true believer is rewarded in every thing, even in affliction.
Follow the way of life, which the Holy Prophet has shown you, for verily that is the right path.