The future belongs to you. Should anyone insult you, tell yourself this: I am a child of destiny who will unite East and West and change the world.

Don't trust anyone. Be a cold fish. I hurt no one. And no one can hurt me.

You may be right in believing that if you study hard, one day you might become fluent in English. But you will still look Chinese, and when people meet you, they’ll see a Chinese girl no matter how well you speak English. You’ll always be expected to know Chinese, and if you don’t, I’m afraid they will not respect you as much.

Revenge is not worthy of you. If you concentrate on revenge, you will keep those wounds fresh that would otherwise have healed.

Transcend your abuse and transform it into a source of courage, creativity and compassion.

Suen Le! (it means, "Let it be.

Keep in mind that whenever you are in a crisis, you are in the midst of danger as well as opportunity.