Despair, when not the response to absolute physical and moral defeat is, like war, the failure of imagination.
Adrienne RichWomen have been driven mad, โgaslightedโ, for centuries by the refutation of our experience and our instincts in a culture which validates only male experience. The truth of our bodies and our minds has been mystified to us. We therefore have primary obligation to each other: not to undermine each otherโs sense of reality for the sake of expediency; not to gaslight each other.
Adrienne Rich