Wisdom cometh by suffering.
"Reverence for parents" stands written among the three laws of most revered righteousness.
From him [Death] alone of all the powers of heaven Persuasion holds aloof.
For the mighty, even to give away is grace.
God always strives together with those who strive.
He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God.