An oak and a reed were arguing about their strength. When a strong wind came up, the reed avoided being uprooted by bending and leaning with the gusts of wind. But the oak stood firm and was torn up by the roots.
Don't go looking for trouble.
The more you want, the more you stand to lose
I am sure the grapes are sour.
We often despise what is most useful to us.
Outside show is a poor substitute for inner worth.