Each person has his strong point.
The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes of others.
Self-help is the best help
A Fox entered the house of an actor and, rummaging through all his properties, came upon a Mask, an admirable imitation of a human head. He placed his paws on it and said, "What a beautiful head! Yet it is of no value, as it entirely lacks brains."
Better to learn wisdom from other people's misfortunes than from your own.
If you allow men to use you for your own purposes, they will use you for theirs.