Persuasion is often more effectual than force.
Adversity tests the sincerity of friends
An oak and a reed were arguing about their strength. When a strong wind came up, the reed avoided being uprooted by bending and leaning with the gusts of wind. But the oak stood firm and was torn up by the roots.
Clumsy jesting is no joke.
Better beans and bacon in peace than cakes and ale in fear.
Straw shows which way the wind is blowing.