Those who cry the loudest are not always the ones who are hurt the most
A fair-minded person tries to see both sides of an argument.
The hero is brave in deeds as well as words.
Outside show is a poor substitute for inner worth.
An oak and a reed were arguing about their strength. When a strong wind came up, the reed avoided being uprooted by bending and leaning with the gusts of wind. But the oak stood firm and was torn up by the roots.
Facts speak plainer than words