We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
Alain de BottonIn the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water, the need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
Alain de BottonI know a lot about writing, but I don't know much about how other industries work. I've tried to use my naivety to my advantage.
Alain de BottonThe challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
Alain de Botton