One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
Alain de BottonAlthough I don't believe in God, Bach's music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
Alain de BottonThe pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
Alain de BottonAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
Alain de BottonRather than teasing the buyers, we may blame the society in which they lived for setting up a situation where the purchase of ornate cabinets felt psychologically necessary and rewarding, where respect was dependent on baroque displays. Rather than a tale of greed, the history of luxury could more accurately be read as a record of emotional trauma. It is the legacy of those who have felt pressured by the disdain of others to add an extraordinary amount to their bare selves in order to signal that they too may lay a claim to love.
Alain de Botton