Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting damage on anyone but oneself, a private pain that is as bittersweet as it is self-induced. But as soon as love is reciprocated, one must be prepared to give up the passivity of simply being hurt and take on the responsibility of perpetrating hurt oneself.
Alain de BottonThe study of maps and the perusal of travel books aroused in me a secret fascination that was at times almost irresistible.
Alain de BottonAlthough I don't believe in God, Bach's music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
Alain de BottonPaying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude - not a punishment for making money.
Alain de BottonStatus Anxiety: A worry, so pernicious as to be capable of ruining extended stretches of our lives, that we are in danger of failing to conform to the ideals of success laid down by our society and that we may as a result be stripped of dignity and respect; a worry that we are currently occupying too modest a rung or are about to fall to a lower one.
Alain de Botton