Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
Alain de BottonWe accept the need to train extensively to fly a plane; but think instinct should be enough for marrying and raising kids.
Alain de BottonIt's perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it's perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
Alain de BottonBeing funny should be an incidental byproduct of trying to get to something truthful, not a destination in itself.
Alain de Botton.. if you asked most people whether they believed in love or not, theyโd probably say they didnโt. Yet thatโs not necessarily what they truly think. Itโs just the way they defend themselves against what they want. They believe in it, but pretend they donโt until theyโre allowed to. Most people would throw away all their cynicism if they could. The majority just never gets the chance.
Alain de Botton