You give your power away when you make someone or something outside of you more important than what is inside of you.
The best way to get what you want is to realize you already have it.
Spirit Math: The quality of your life equals the ratio of appreciation to complaint.
Whatever you think and talk about paves the runway for what you will create.
After you have made your commitment to say no to what no longer serves you, you will probably be invited to demonstrate that you really mean it.
Busyness is not a reason for not getting other things done. It is an excuse for not claiming your true priorities.