There are two kinds of people in the world: those who make excuses and those who get results. An excuse person will find any excuse for why a job was not done, and a results person will find any reason why it can be done. Be a creator, not a reactor.
The best way to get what you want is to realize you already have it.
Teach yourself freedom with the same zeal that the world has taught you limits.
If you want to find God, hang out in the space between your thoughts.
I claim my heart's desire, and I choose my direction. I will attain my chosen goal.
Only the ego resists egos. The spirit may notice egos, but sees beyond them and does not engage with them.