In fact, it comes to this: nobody is capable of really thinking about anyone, even in the worst calamity. For really to think about someone means thinking about that person every minute of the day, without letting oneโs thoughts be diverted by anything- by meals, by a fly that settles on oneโs cheek, by household duties, or by a sudden itch somewhere. But there are always flies and itches. Thatโs why life is difficult to live.
Albert CamusBelieve me there is no such thing as great suffering, great regret, great memory....everything is forgotten, even a great love. That's what's sad about life, and also what's wonderful about it. There is only a way of looking at things, a way that comes to you every once in a while. That's why it's good to have had love in your life after all, to have had an unhappy passion- it gives you an alibi for the vague despairs we all suffer from.
Albert Camus