To err is human; to forgive people and yourself for poor behavior is to be sensible and realistic.
Albert EllisIn a sense, the religious person must have no real views of his own and it is presumptuous of him, in fact, to have any. In regard to sex-love affairs, to marriage and family relations, to business, to politics, and to virtually everything else that is important in his life, he must try to discover what his god and his clergy would like him to do; and he must primarily do their bidding.
Albert EllisConvince yourself that worrying about many situations will make them worse rather than improve them.
Albert Ellis