I have a great deal of empathy for anyone who's having a hard time. I believe this ability to see another's viewpoint has served me well as a writer.
A shoe that fits one person pinches another.
It would be so great to have someone my own age to talk to, even if it was just about books.
Seem like a lot of people wear shoes they can't walk in.
Sometimes, unexpected things can happen.
Any experience that isn't fun is probably something I will at least use in my writing someday.