Get your enemy to read your works in order to mend them, for your friend is so much your second self that he will judge too like you.
Alexander PopeSuch as are still observing upon others are like those who are always abroad at other men's houses, reforming everything there while their own runs to ruin.
Alexander PopeIn men, we various ruling passions find; In women, two almost divide the kind Those, only fixed, they first or last obey, The love of pleasure, and the love of sway.
Alexander Pope