There is never a problem child; there is only a problem parent
It starts with a crush, it then may turn into love, and hopefully will end up as soulmates.
When my first wife & I began the school, we had one main idea: to make the school fit the child - instead of making the child fit the school.
Love and hate are not opposites. The opposite of love is indifference.
If the emotions are free the intellect will look after itself
Take from others what you want, but never be a disciple of anyone.