If the emotions are free the intellect will look after itself
It starts with a crush, it then may turn into love, and hopefully will end up as soulmates.
Take from others what you want, but never be a disciple of anyone.
The difficult child is the child who is unhappy. He is at war with himself; and in consequence, he is at war with the world.
Love and hate are not opposites. The opposite of love is indifference.
There is never a problem child; there is only a problem parent