More important than innate disposition, objective experience, and environment is the subjective evaluation of these. Furthermore, this evaluation stands in a certain, often strange, relation to reality.
Alfred AdlerWhat person, confined in a small room with nothing but a tea-cosy, will not eventually put the tea-cosy on their head?
Alfred AdlerThere is only one reason for an individual to side-step to the useless side : the fear of a defeat on the useful side.
Alfred Adler