I actually think it's sometimes easier for the control freaks to let loose.
Sometimes I write well when I'm very upset.
I think you have to remember that writing is hard; my first editor used to say that to me.
Certainly children are being encouraged far more than they were seventy-five years ago and are more accepted as they are.
The making of fiction takes literally what is suggested by our imagination.
It's a scary thing for fiction writers, when you're always writing from the point of view both as and for someone who is different.