Parents are indeed capable of routinely torturing their children without anyone interceding.
Alice MillerHe has given ample evidence of qualities hardly any other living statesman has demonstrated to the same degree: the courage to look facts in the face and to seek flexible solutions, respect for others, give-and-take in dialog situations, absence of hypocrisy, a complete absence of grandeur in the conduct of his personal life. He has never been driven by blind self-assertion to make absurd decisions.
Alice MillerAll children are born to grow, to develop, to live, to love, and to articulate their needs and feelings for their self-protection
Alice MillerContempt is the weapon of the weak and a defense against one's own despised and unwanted feelings.
Alice Miller