Because if she let go of her grief even for a minute it would only hit her harder when she bumped into it again.
Alice MunroThe thing is to be happy, no matter what. Just try that. You can. It gets to be easier and easier. It's nothing to do with circumstances. You wouldn't believe how good it is. Accept everything and then tragedy disappears. Or tragedy lightens, anyway, you're just there, going along easy in the world.
Alice MunroOne drop of hatred in your soul will spread and discolor everything like a drop of black ink in white milk.
Alice Munro