You learned that if you're tired enough, you can sleep sitting up. That the unendurable is perfectly endurable if you just take it a minute at a time, and when the alternative is no more minutes ever.
Oh, where is the Fairy Godmother of explanations when you need her?
Can't is for pussies.
Anyone suffering Downton Abbey withdrawal symptoms will find an instant tonic.
The best musicians answer something in you when you don't even know the question.
Death itself is too big to take in, she already sees that; the loss comes at you instead in an infinite number of small installments that can never be paid off.