Human crises have a way of happening at inconvenient times.
Worry retards reaction and makes clear-cut decisions impossible.
In soloing - as in other activities - it is far easier to start something than it is to finish it.
You can do anything you decide to do.
Anticipation, I suppose, sometimes exceeds realization.
One of my favorite phobias is that girls, especially those whose tastes aren't routine, often don't get a fair break... It has come down through the generations, an inheritance of age-old customs, which produced the corollary that women are bred to timidity.