On the third day after someone dies, the soul comes back to settle scores. In my mother's case, this would be the first day of the lunar new year. And because it is the new year, all debts must be paid, or disaster and misfortune will follow.
Amy TanI discovered that maybe it was fate all along, that faith was just an illusion that somehow you're in control.
Amy TanThen you must teach my daughter this same lesson. How to lose your innocence but not your hope. How to laugh forever.
Amy TanHow can you blame a person for his fears and weaknesses unless you have felt the same and done differently?
Amy TanAnd then it occurs to me. They are frightened. In me, they see their own daughters, just as ignorant, just as unmindful of all the truths and hopes they have brought to America. They see daughters who grow impatient when their mothers talk in Chinese, who think they are stupid when they explain things in fractured English. They see that joy and luck do not mean the same to their daughters, that to these closed American-born minds "joy luck" is not a word, it does not exist. They see daughters who will bear grandchildren born without any connecting hope passed from generation to generation.
Amy Tan