That is the saddest part when you lose someone you love - that person keeps changing. And later you wonder, Is this the same person I lost? Maybe you lost more maybe less, then thousand different things that come from your memory or imagination - and you do not know which is which, which was true, which is false.
Amy TanYou should think about your character. Know where you are changing, how you will be changed, what cannot be changed back again.
Amy TanYou must think for yourself, what you must do. If someone tells you, then you are not trying. -An-mei
Amy TanShanghainese people are good negotiators, they're very persistent, and you grow up in an atmosphere like that - very competitive. That becomes part of your personality, Shanghai personality becomes part of yours.
Amy Tan