To save myself, I destroyed another, and in doing so, I destroyed myself.

All these years I kept my true nature hidden, running along like a small shadow so nobody could catch me. -Ying Ying

My sister Kwan believes she has yin eyes. She sees those who have died and now dwell in the world of Yin, ghosts who leave the mists just to visit her kitchen on Balboa Street in San Francisco.

I learned to forgive myself, and that enabled me to forgive my mother as a person.

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

So much of history is mystery. We don't know what is lost forever, what will surface again. All objects exist in a moment of time. And that fragment of time is preserved or lost or found in mysterious ways. Mystery is a wonderful part of life.

Your life is what you see in front of you. -An-mei