Ceremony is-really a protection, too, in times of emotional involvement, particularly at death. If we have a social formula to guide us and do not have to extemporize, we feel better able to handle life.
Amy VanderbiltGood manners have much to do with the emotions. To make them ring true, one must feel them, not merely exhibit them.
Amy VanderbiltParents must get across the idea that "I love you always, but sometimes I do not love your behavior."
Amy Vanderbilt