The hurting of women is . . . basic to the sexual pleasure of men.

The hurting of women is . . . basic to the sexual pleasure of men.

We are born into a world in which sexual possibilities are narrowly circumscribed. . . . We are programmed by the culture as surely as rats are programmed to make the arduous way through the scientist's maze, and that programming operates on every level of choice and action.

We think that we live in a heterosexual society because most men are fixated on women as sexual objects; but, in fact, we live ina homosexual society because all credible transactions of power, authority, and authenticity take place among men; all transactions based on equity and individuality take place among men. Men are real; therefore, all real relationship is between men; all real communication is between men; all real reciprocity is between men; all real mutuality is between men.

I have spent 20 years writing these books. Had I wanted to say men are beasts and scream, that takes 30 seconds.

When two individuals come together and leave their gender outside the bedroom door, then they make love.

There is no place on earth, no day or night, no hour or minute, when one is not a Jew or a woman.