I had known a couple of people who had died, but the loss of my mother contained something of the profoundly unknowable.
Andrew SolomonGrief is depression in proportion to circumstance; depression is grief out of proportion to circumstance.
Andrew SolomonThen I repeated these words to my spirits: 'Leave me be; give me peace; and let me do the work of my life. I will never forget you.' Something about that incantation was particularly appealing to me. 'I will never forget you'-- as though one had to address the pride of the spirits, as though one wanted them to feel good about being exorcised.
Andrew SolomonThe campaign against polygamy, around which a lot of anti-Mormon sentiment was organized, seems horrific to me.
Andrew Solomon