I better be honest about my feelings, even those involving loneliness, jealousy, and fear.
I love the term "everything is copy," attributed to Nora Ephron, which was my guiding principle as I wrote.
In the case of Tori Spelling, there were two apology emails.
I've been gay since the day I was born.
Just go with your gut and communicate.
I usually do drive-by insults, and keep moving until I realize the next day how horrible I am.