When you acknowledge your weaknesses to the rest of the team, it is never new information.
God uses broken-hearted leaders.
Without courage we will simply accumulate a collection of good ideas and regrets.
Divine direction begins with unconditional submission.
If you see your brother in need, it doesn't matter if you already gave somewhere else. You should be open to the idea of God using you to meet your brother's unexpected need.
As long as you are carrying a secret, as long as you are trying to ease your conscience by telling God how sorry you are, you are setting yourself up to repeat the past.