Now they can do all these magic things with computers. So you think you get to do something in a movie and you find out you don't get to really do it.

I have to concentrate on my son. That's why I have lovers right now and not a boyfriend. I don't want my son to start calling somebody Daddy unless that person's gonna stay.

The beautiful thing about such moments in life is that there is so much clarity. You know what you live for and what matters.

I wish I could find people who just would fight me and break through to me and hold me down and scream their life into my face.

I realized that very young - that a life where you don't live to your full potential, or you don't experiment, or you're afraid, or you hesitate, or there are things you know you should do but you just don't get around to them, is a life that I'd be miserable living, and the only way to feel that I'm on the right path is just to be true to myself, whatever that may be, and that tends to come with stepping out of something that's maybe safe or traditional.

I'm not somebody that thinks about destiny and fate, but I don't walk away from it when something unfolds.

It doesn't take courage to drink too much and be wild or jump around. That doesn't take any kind of boldness, just riding a motorcycle or whatever the idea of being tough is. Tough is having four kids. Tough is committing to life and being disciplined.