It can be very frustrating and very deflating to be constantly defined and described by other people, so I've stopped reading anything written about me, and I find it much healthier. I just sort of concentrate on what I do and don't worry too much about that.
Ani DiFrancoYou've already put more than enough energy into worry. That's all women have been allowed to do, historically.
Ani DiFrancoFirst decide what you got to do, then go out and do it. All we can do is to see each other through it.
Ani DiFrancoBut in the garden of simple, where all of us are nameless, you were never anything but beautiful to me.
Ani DiFrancoand god help you if you are an ugly girl course too pretty is also your doom cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room and god help you if you are a pheonix and you dare to rise up from the ash a thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy while you are just flying back
Ani DiFranco