The essence of romantic love is that wonderful beginning, after which sadness and impossibility may become the rule.
Anita BrooknerOne loses the capacity to grieve as a child grieves, or to rage as a child rages: hotly, despairingly, with tears of passion. One grows up, one becomes civilized, one learns one's manners, and consequently can no longer manage these two functions - sorrow and anger - adequately.
Anita Brookner