The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem. Got that? -Coach Brevin

Love who you love while you have them. That's all you can do. Let them go when you must. If you know how to love, you'll never run out.

Once Paul told her that the beach was like him because it changed every day but it never made any progress. Later she remembered thinking that a normal person might have begun by saying that he was like the beach.

you remember what is lost, and you forget what's right in front of you.

There were those emotions down there, and though she couldn't quite feel them, they were strong and she feared them. It was like watching a thunderhead from high up in a plane, and though you weren't under it, you knew how it would feel if you were. You knew you'd have to land eventually.

You know what the secret is? It's so simple. We love one another. We're nice to one another. Do you know how rare that is? - Carmen

You surround yourself with your pain or you avoid it and let it find you when you are trying to do other things