She liked the life she had. She loved habits. She craved a day with nothing in it, a long, quiet stretch of hours in the studio.

There are moments in your life when the big pieces slide and shift. Sometimes the big changes dong happen gradually but all at once. That's how it was for us. That was the day we discovered that friends can do things for you that your parents can't.

Maybe it didn’t matter if you were a world-famous heartthrob or a painful geek. Maybe it didn’t matter if you friend was possibly dying. Maybe you just got through it. Maybe that was all you could ask for.

Marnie hated to see her spend so much of herself on someone who didn't care.

Exactly! We run or we lose ourselves in something, somebody, anything to try and ease our pain.

I like that you let yourself be surprised

When there is nothing, there is the possibility of everything.