I learned that if I ever claim sexual harassment, I will be confronted with every bozo I once dated, every women I once impressedas snotty and superior, and together they will provide a convenient excuse to disbelieve me.

I remember adolescence, the years of having the impulse control of a mousetrap, of being as private as a safe-deposit box.

If God had meant Harvard professors to appear in People magazine, She wouldn't have invented The New York Review of Books.

All of the qualities that you need to be a good opinion columnist tend to be qualities that aren't valued in women.

On the other hand, I think that Governor Romney has to worry that his turnout is going to be low, that he is not going to bring out the evangelicals, that he is not going to bring out the Tea Party stalwarts. If he does not, then it's pretty clear that he will lose the election. So I think turnout in key groups is going to be really, really key on Election Day.

I think we now know the limits also of intelligence and rhetoric.

Life is made up of moments, small pieces of glittering mica in a long stretch of gray cement. It would be wonderful if they came to us unsummoned, but particularly in lives as busy as the ones most of us lead now, that won’t happen. We have to teach ourselves how to make room for them, to love them, and to live, really live.