I put myself on the line with my truth and my sexuality. That is my choice. My choice

I'm one of those people who was taught not to ruffle any feathers. Of course, I have no problem ruffling feathers.

I don't belong to the straights now - they didn't get me back.

He never admitted anything, even on his deathbed. He was a deluded liar. If it weren't for my father, I don't think I would be so open. So that's a huge blessing.

And for anyone who ever thought that Ellen and I broke it off because of sexuality, you couldn't be more mistaken. And for anyone who thought my mother's prayers had anything to do with me marrying a man, forget it.

Before, I just spewed whatever it was I thought about everything. I tend to be more contemplative now

I believe I went through a divorce. My relationship with Ellen is no less significant as a marriage than my relationship to Coley.