I also learned that you didn’t come onto this earth as a perfectionist or control freak. You weren’t born a person of cringe and contraction. You were born as energy, as life, made of the same stuff as stars, blossoms, breezes. You learned contraction to survive, but that was then. You have paid through the nose-paid but good. It is now your turn to reap.
Anne LamottYou are going to love some of your characters because they are you or some facet of you, and you are going to hate some of your characters for the same reason.
Anne LamottI've known for years that resentments don't hurt the person we resent, but they do hurt us.
Anne Lamott